When you plant your emotions in the external things of your life, you are living in illusion. By doing so you assume certain things are-by nature-good or bad. When you realize that nothing is good nor bad, and that outside events have only as much influence on our true selves as we allow them to, you see that happiness does not come from without. You overcome illusion. Emotion is a mindset, it is a CHOICE and the choice you make is up to you. Don’t blame your feelings on anything but you and listen to what you really want. When you find out what you want, make it happen. There is a plan, but you have a choice.